I am now at the point to where I see myself becoming more pessimistic at an unhealthy level. The things going on right now has me wanting to pull the hair right out of my head. Nature’s doing that for me. My thinning hair and apparent grey in my beard may be the result of the overwhelming malarkey. I said malarkey. I am trying to keep this at an entertaining PG level.
I’ve said it multiple times since November (when I started this farce called blogging) that I have self-esteem issues from an array of incidents. I have an apparent form of depression compounded with anxiety. Although it’s not medically diagnosed, it is there and it’s evident as RuPaul and his “lifestyle”. Maybe that isn’t the best comparison. It’s 2:30am right now, so get off my back. My depression and anxiety may be temporary if things smooth out. I really don’t see that happening.
In the past, my anger issues grew exponentially when I lost my home in 2013. It grew to a greater scale when I lived on campus at that “college” called Wright State University. I lived with three guys who, all in all, was the polar opposite of myself. They’re financially secure with the comfort of knowing that the only way they are (or were) going to college was through the wallets of their parents. They can drive. They’re socially excelling. I was never like that.
I’m a 6’3″ or 6’4″ (depends on the slouch), 300 pound country boy, $47,000 in student loan debt, without a drivers license and primarily an introvert. Knit pick at that. For eighteen months, all of that and then some was picked at. Anyone weaker would have snapped in a violent manner. I didn’t. I bottled it up. Emotionally, it wore me out. My self-esteem went right out of the window. I remember being told “Sucks to be a Joe” or “Who cares, nobody knows who you are”. I apologize for being that sorry sap for longs for being socially accepted.
Aside from that, the college itself is cracking the foundation of who and what I am. I grew up poor. I’m still poor. My ultimate goal was to go to college and become someone. The number one thing was to be someone who didn’t have to be in pain from years of brutal impacts to the body. I wanted to do something where I used my mind and help people. My college chipped away at that. David Hopkins, former President of Wright State University, was the head of a university who neglected the budget to a point to where progress was almost non-existent. I had signed up for classes that would be cancelled at the last minute leaving me with no room to find an adequate course. I would have to take something I did not need to keep myself from owing the college money. Because of this, I’m at a point to where I’ve used more financial aid than I should with nothing to show for it.
The Spring 2017 semester just ended. How did I do? I didn’t. I got an incomplete for one mistake in my class. The professor never taught an online course before, so my fate is (or was) lying in the hands of someone completely incompetent of his own tasks. The university failed me again, and I really don’t think I will be able to graduate. I spend the past eight years working hard physically and mentally for what? Owing the government for the money I spent on a institution they shouldn’t have accredited? I’m tired of it all. I had goals. I had the hope of the “American Dream”. By-the-by, the American Dream is dead. I had a goal of one of two things. Doing a non-profit by helping those with nervous disorders, or something to be ecologically aware while working for the city. I cannot do either because the forces behind the oak desk at Wright State is shaping my destiny to be that of retail.
I don’t want that life. I don’t want to be in customer service, being a lifer at a retail chain. I want to be in control of what I see as my own destiny. I don’t want to be ticked off 24/7, working ten times harder than my 15 year old co-working while we’re getting the same pay. I want to live, not exist.